Patience, shrink of shrinks, is convinced she has the means of performing the oracle. She dislikes what we humans call failure, recorded by distortion. In order to self-motivate I have decided to chronicle ongoing events in a diary which will be more about contemporaneous comment and awry observations on current affairs and miscellaneous memories than a recording of reality on a mundane basis.
I have no idea of what will emerge but as long as it as cynical as hell and reflects my less than perfect perception of matters which matter and don’t matter, so what. For purposes of prudence this diary will be retrospective.


Would that the words of Brendan Kennelly might be my epitaph:

“They gather together to pool their weaknesses,
Persuade themselves that they are strong.
There is no strength like the strength of one
Who will not belong”.


The Prodigal on the Camino 2015

The Prodigal on the Camino 2015
The Prodigal on the Camino 2015

Monday, 20 February 2017

December 18th 2015


Words come back to haunt you! On December 9th I quoted Dickens by recalling the opening lines of ‘A Tale of Two Cities’.
“It was the best of times, it was the worst of times”.
Today was one of those days. Niamh had one of her best days ever and was very happy in her new job. She achieved the standard and quantity of work that might be expected of a seasoned employee and loved it. A lot of this is due to the encouragement and moral support of her mentor, John Keegan.
Well he is a distant relative of course. The two worked all day and Patience planted 200 saplings in very testing conditions. Carrying 100 young trees in difficult terrain for a distance of hundreds of metres as well as her trusty spade is no mean feat. Then she is physically very strong and hugely determined. Patience in all aspects is a remarkable woman. She is very beautiful, hugely intelligent and though you could not read her mind you are very aware that she has an exceptional one. The Prodigal is old enough to be her grandfather and she has been told this many times including by yours truly.
I must be the only man in Ireland whose mother in law is twenty years younger than him. Then again if you met her mother it is obvious that ‘The apple never falls far from the tree’. We have been together for more than half a decade and I have never come across such a united ‘odd couple’ as professor Seamus Mac Aogain described us. We spend an incredible amount of time together and never seem to get on one another’s nerves which is remarkable. What she sees in an auld bollox like me I will never know. At any rate for Patience this is the ‘best of times’ and by fortuitous association for myself also.
Then there is the other side of the coin. Not long ago an expected friend started a long and dangerous trip to be with us. He undertook the most hazardous of journeys to join our merry little band. Adam started his journey well equipped and we had every expectation that he would arrive home sometime in the New Year. It was not to be.
Not long after setting out on his voyage the Gods intervened. Adam had a mishap which turned out to be fatal. Misadventure they called it. Anyway the great expectations all turned to ashes and dust. Never will we now see the fair face of this ‘child of grace’. We must believe that he is in a better place. For his mother and father and all of us who looked forward so much to his safe arrival these are “The worst of times”.
Man provides; God decides.



 

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