Reasons for non-action
to date, (AS CONVEYED TO THE LEGAL AID BOARD) .
The abuse I received at the hands of Brendan
Hynds took place between 1960 and 1968. I completed the Primary Certificate in
1964 and the Intermediate Certificate in 1967. At that time it was unthinkable
to accuse any member of the clergy of wrongdoing of any kind. Even if a child
were believed (assuming he felt able to tell his parents in the first place)
there is no way in which working class people would ever consider or could ever
afford taking any action (legal or otherwise) against the power of the Church.
This climate remained as for at least another twenty years.
I got married in 1974 and proceeded to have a family. While it occurred to me
frequently to raise the abuse I had suffered as a child, I felt that any such
matter would have to wait until such time as my children were older and the
fallout from any such proceedings would not adversely impinge on them even by
the most remote association.
In 2005 various reports on child sexual abuse
were published and I realised that this horrible practice was widespread and
was allowed to become so because of the failure of ordinary people to protest -
those who did were not listened to and depicted as cranks - and because of the
Church's role in covering up the abuse. It was because of reports such as the
McCullough Report and the Ferns Report that I formally reported the abuse I had
received at the hands of a priest.
Out of concern for the potential impact on my
children of the matter becoming public, I indicated that I was not pressing for
any action to be taken at that time.
However, I resolved there and then that when my
youngest child was of an age I would seek justice for the abuse I suffered. In
three months that child will be eighteen.
Late in 2014 I requested that the new bishop
Francis formally investigate this matter and that he provide me with a copy of
the file that contained my report in 2005. While he supplied the file (redacted
in many parts), he confirmed that the matter was one for the Gardaí and was not
the responsibility of the Church as the activities of the said priest were
“criminal”. For this reason along with the desire to see the truth established
I am now intent on proceeding against those liable in this matter. The priest
in question perpetrated horrific acts against many young boys. I am not aware
of any of those boys ever having got justice and I hope to set the record
straight.
On August 14th 2015 I sent the
following correspondence to Bishop Francis which gave him an option on the
entire sorry business should he so choose. While the prospect of legal
proceedings didn’t faze me in the least I could always confirm that I tried to
end this sorry business on a conciliatory note. If the Bishop accepted the
bona-fides of my position as he surely did then he might just prefer the
acknowledgement/apology scenario to the High Court situation wherein the
attendant publicity would be unseemly and sensational.
Bishop Francis,
I recently
returned from a 600km pilgrimage from Madrid to Santiago. During the pilgrimage
I reflected at some length on the issue of Brendan Hynds and
your stance on this matter.
Upon
returning home I went through the file once more. I re-read your letter dated
28 July 2014 in which you expressed your sorrow at my suffering at the hands of
Father Hynds and then proceeded to wash your own hands of the matter by
describing Father Hynds' activities as "criminal" and stating that
“it is the Gardaí who investigate these matters”. Of course what this statement
(conveniently and deliberately) failed to acknowledge is that without the cloak
of the Alb and the Amice Brendan Hynds could not have committed his crimes.
Indeed his vestments were the most powerful tools in his continued abuse of his multiple
young victims.
As regards
my own personal position, I can confirm that I have applied for legal aid to
commence legal proceedings against the diocese. It has been confirmed to me
that I am eligible for legal aid and a copy of my file is now held by the Legal
Aid Board at Smithfield.
Although I
will commence legal proceedings if that proves necessary, I am prepared to
explore whether a compromise can be achieved, thereby obviating the need to
litigate. To this end, I propose to take no further action in this matter,
litigious or otherwise, if you agree to attend mass in Ballymahon (on a Mass
date to be confirmed in advance), address the congregation, acknowledge the
pain of the victims of clerical sexual abuse and apologise to them for the
suffering they endured. I should be grateful if you would confirm your position
on the above by the end of August 2015.
In conclusion, please believe
me that my resolve to get a result on this matter is absolute. Bishop Francis,
rest assured that I bear no animosity towards yourself or the Church in
general. However, scores of boys’ lives have been very badly damaged because of
this historical outrage and it is my ambition that some recognition be given to
this fact by the source that caused it.
Kindest
regards, etc.
Hereunder
is the reply I received;
St.
Michael’s,
Longford
3rd
September 2015
Dear Mr. Walsh,
Thank you for your
letter of August 14th.
I am sorry
to learn that my letter of July 28th last year is now understood by you as a
washing of my hands of your experience. This was not in any sense my intention.
I offered to meet with you and also suggested that the diocesan designated
person Sean Leydon be involved. I remain open and ready to meet with you. This
would allow me hear your account of what happened and to be present to the
suffering you continue to endure in consequence.
I will
certainly consider speaking to the parishioners of Ballymahon, as you have
suggested. It is a difficult pastoral call as to whether the specific mention
of a deceased priest from the altar, in the context of abuse, would be helpful.
My words could shock and reawaken past suffering for others who were abused and
who are trying to live with this reality in their lives. I intend to take
pastoral advice before making my final decision. As you know I have previously,
through public announcement, invited people in the diocese who were abused
through the actions of clergy to come forward. I am respectful of the unique
journey each person must make in that situation.
A separate
consideration is your thought of commencing legal proceedings against the
diocese. Such a step can only be decided upon by you and I would not wish to
become involved in any form of compromise that could impact on that decision. I
hope you will understand my thinking in this regard.
In
conclusion, I invite you consider again the possibility of coming to see me
either by myself in a pastoral capacity or with the designated person who would
hear and create a formal record of your experience.
I look forward to
hearing from you.
Yours sincerely
Francis Duffy
Bishop of Ardagh and
Clonmacnoise.
Having considered the Bishops invitation to a
personal meeting I contacted him and confirmed that I would meet with him on a
one-to-one basis only and would make myself available to suit his itinerary. He
responded thus;
Dear Mr
Walsh,
I would
like you to be assured of my genuine desire to ensure that any person who was
abused by a priest of this Diocese will know and feel that their disclosure is
welcomed. I hope that it is known that I am available, and also that people
with the appropriate skills are available to respond to the different needs
that arise. I will continue to ensure that this message is communicated
effectively and will welcome your observations on how this is best done.
I will be
pleased to meet with you, by myself, here at St Michael's and suggest the
following date and time, Tuesday 27th October at 7.00pm. If this is not
convenient please contact my secretary. Peggy, at the above number, with a view
to setting an alternative date that works for both of us.
I hope you
will understand, for the pastoral integrity of our meeting, that your decision
on the pursuit of legal action cannot be a factor which informs my decision on
whether and how any particular parish outreach is made.
Yours
sincerely.
Francis
Duffy
Bishop Francis and The Prodigal met at his
office at St. Michaels in Longford on Tuesday October 27th as
arranged. I have to say that I had anticipated more obfuscation and
procrastination but after my opening salve of ten or more minutes the Bishop
informed me that he had given consideration to avenues of approach towards
resolving the issue.
I left the decent man in no doubt of the fact
that when I left his office my course of action would be decided and that
decision would in the main be fashioned by him.
There was the question of the sensibilities of
former victims should old bad memories be re-awakened. Then there was the consideration
of mentioning by name the paedophile offender despite the fact that he was long
dead.
There was then the issue of his having to take
‘pastoral advice ‘on the matter. I advised him that he had 2000 years of
ecclesiastical politics to fall back on and that I was merely a harmless
layman.
The Bishop confirmed that having considered the
matter at some length he had come to a decision to come to Ballymahon and
address the congregation on the issue but that the difficulties would be
considerable. Then I pushed my luck a little, but felt justified in so doing,
on the time table for this activity.
Without hesitating the Bishop confirmed that it
was his intention to come to both Ballymahon and Cloghan, in Offaly, in the
first or second week in Advent. I had challenged him in previous correspondence
as to whether he was man enough or priest enough to do the right thing on this
matter. Now I had my answer!
We also agreed that his visit should be
advertised through the medium of the parish newsletter in advance of his visit
to enable interested parties to attend the Church for his visit.
I never questioned the possibility that the good
Bishop might have secondary advice or any other influence which might bring
about a change of heart or stance on this matter.
On December 3rd the Bishop sent me
the following letter:
“Dear Mr
Walsh,
I write to
tell you that I will deliver a public statement at the end of Mass in St.
Matthew’s Church, Ballymahon, on Sunday 6th December in which I will
apologise for the abuse perpetrated by Fr. Brendan Hynds on boys in the parish.
Francis
Duffy,
Bishop of
Ardagh and Clonmacnoise”
While I was a little surprised at the outcome I
had no doubt about the sincerity of intent of Bishop Francis it nonetheless
seemed incredible that a conclusion to the whole unfortunate saga now seemed to
be at an end. There was nothing more to do but wait and be in attendance at
Mass in Ballymahon on the date confirmed by the Bishop.
People who, for whatever reason, have occasion
to apologise for the actions of one of their peers tend to minimise the extent
of the damage done or intended. I hoped that the Bishop would tell it as it was
and not try to justify in any way the horrific acts of one of his own.
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